4 Underrated Attraction Skills No One Taught You
Yesterday I had a late night conversation with my friend.
Despite a few months of dedicated effort…
He was conflicted.
Frustrated by his lack of dating options…
I could hear him rationalizing a return to old habits.
He wanted to go back into the cage.
I felt his pain.
Your personal growth is one of the hardest things you’ll do.
But you cannot let self-doubt win.
Why?
Your greatest growth comes in the later stages.
Like dividends on a rising stock.
Eventually, you reap more in 6 months than two years combined.
But in the meantime…
You must learn how to avoid the fall off.
Leverage bros.
If you’re reading this…
I’m confident that you’re working hard towards your goals.
So why aren’t you getting the results you crave?
Yes — circumstances change with sustained effort.
But not all effort is made the same.
The clerk working overnights at the corner store is putting in 40+ hours of labor…
But bossman is the one eating cake.
The difference between the two is that one has figured out how to profit from leverage.
I used to spend hours swiping on dating apps and praying for a match.
I got zero.
Until I decided to change my approach and maximize points of leverage.
This meant perfecting my PHOTOS with flattering angles, lightening, expressions…
Why stress over words on a visual game?
Small changes in the right places = immense rewards.
Epiphany season.
An epiphany or streams of consciousness can bring your objective YEARS closer.
Creatives like Benjamin Franklin or Rick Rubin are famous for capturing their thoughts and turning them into gold.
So how do you capture them?
Keep a baseline of low stimulation.
- Walking
- Meditation
Get into the habit of writing your ideas down before they turn into dust.
When applied…
You’ll accelerate into the stratosphere like Elon Musk.
Sacrifice it.
Of course, if you’re distracted 24/7…
You won’t even have the CHANCE to iterate or harness your epiphanies.
You simply won’t have the mental clarity needed for growth.
Sacrifice the bullsh*t.
It’s all designed to keep you sedated anyways.
It might help you feel better in the moment…
But reality doesn’t care about feelings.
If you don’t improve — you’re getting left behind for the guy who is.
Nature is competitive.
Here’s the hard truth…
In order to get ahead in life, you must prioritize the actions that bring the highest return on investment.
ESPECIALLY if you’re starting from the bottom.
There’s only two options:
- Improve the product and presentation
- Stay on the shelf
It’s not easy, which is why most men convince themselves that the status quo (watching anime in bed) is the best place to live.
But you’ll adapt much quicker than you think.
Fine tune your habits until your doing the 5–7 things that drive all the growth.
You’ll be where you want.
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