5 Cheat Codes That 80% of Men Aren't Using
Yesterday I was reading the comment section of a “Modern Wisdom” video on YouTube…
Amongst a sea of positivity, there was one downer who was ranting about how the world makes it IMPOSSIBLE for men to succeed.
I thought to myself…
“You reap what you sow.”
He was unfortunately lost in the sauce.
But also I understand that we live in complicated times.
So what do you actually focus on as a man?
CODE # 1 | power of the mind
Before you can reach your highest potential…
First reset the self-image that’s holding you back.
Men who’ve been eluded by success instinctively believe that it’s out of their control.
I used to be there too.
Change your mindset.
How?
I spend 30 minutes every morning meditating on my ideal life in detail.
Chiseled body, glass window apartment, fresh linen shirts, travel plans…
More precise the better.
This subconsciously ANCHORS an image of your true potential.
You still have to do the work.
But the tools will feel lighter in your hands.
Give it a try.
All it takes is a quiet room and your imagination.
CODE # 2 | gym time
If you’re unable to create presence…
You’ll mostly remain behind bars like Guantanamo.
Which is fine.
But why make it hard for yourself?
Create the body of your dreams.
Win.
There’s practically no downside to a hot aesthetic.
If you only have 2 extra hours before/after work…
This is your TOP PRIORITY.
Style and grooming are secondary.
With the body — you’ll look good in Hanes or Tom Ford.
Doesn’t matter.
Don’t worry about the extras until you’ve developed a solid gym routine.
CODE # 3 | pixel escape
Dump that phone into a toxic wasteland.
And don’t touch corn with a six foot pole.
Why?
Anything that serves as a substitute for IRL interaction is RUINING you.
Because instead of socializing outside…
You’re scroll cranking to some niche subreddit at 10PM.
A starving man hunts for food.
A man fed poison gets sick.
Take action like it’s a tsunami warning:
- Hide your phone in your closet or sock drawer
- Don’t carry it around with you (get a pedometer for steps)
- Delete top offending apps
- Download an app blocker
- Restrict your screen time
Most importantly…
Remind yourself that 1 hour of pixilation subtracts HOURS from growth (thanks to compounding).
CODE # 4 | staycation
The attractive life requires sacrifice.
Turn down everything that doesn’t involve your DIRECT GOALS, at least for the short-term.
Why?
I’ve been pumping iron since HS…
But didn’t get aesthetic until my late 20s.
Those 1–2 month “short breaks” that I would take away from my gym zeroed my momentum.
It’s not just 1 day partying with your friends…
It’s a week of focus and energy shot down the hatch.
Lock in.
CODE # 5 | club iteration
Naval Ravikant (aka the goat) is famous for declaring…
“It’s not 10,000 hours, it’s 10,000 iterations."
Facts.
Personally, I use Notion every Sunday to track my results, but a journal or Google Doc works fine.
Make the course corrections early so you don’t end up in the Bermuda.
No more empty coasting.
Let’s go.
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