7 Brutal Truths Every Man Needs To Hear (Before It's Too Late)

I used to be a loser.
My perfect weekend would consist of laying in bed while watching “movies” on my iPhone 7.
Followed by a trip to Little Caesars.
Needless to say…
No women were involved in the making.
This lasted for a while too.
Until one day as a sophomore in college, I took a tumultuous fall down a flight of stairs.
Luckily — I didn’t RIP.
But my whole essence changed.
All from a realization:
“Am I going to die alone?”
It was probable, unless I changed something fast.
So I began my search for the truth.
Here’s what I found…

TRUTH # 1 | Your body needs to be on point.
People give you value based on how you look.
This is why men with attractive mugshots go viral and enjoy a life of supermodels and early retirement.
Is it unfair?
Yeah, but I don’t make up the rules.
The good news?
80% of physical attraction is an aesthetic body.
Anyone with 1 hour/day can attain this.
Going from skinny fat nerd to athlete build…
I’ve seen the truth first hand.
If you want to multiply your dating prospects with one single habit…
This is it.

TRUTH # 2 | Great style changes your luck.
You can either dress well or dress like sh*t.
Which one do you think sets you apart from the crowd?
These days, it’s easy.
Most guys drape their body in stained hoodies and baggy jeans.
So just do the opposite:
- Collared shirts
- Slim fitted pants
- Clean shoes
- Watch
You’ll be the guy she ACTUALLY wants.

TRUTH # 3 | Money matters.
I’m not saying you have to be Big Zuck to find your match.
But undeniably…
Money buys freedom.
Travel, date nights, clothes, healthy foods…
At the very least, it allows you to free up your time for self-work.
So how do we run it up?
There’s two ways to make a dollar:
- Exchanging time for payment
- Ownership / equity
In the beginning — a mix of both works best.
But ownership is what allows for total freedom, location and lifestyle.

TRUTH # 4 | Self-image is everything.
Here’s the tricky part:
If you don’t actually believe it’s possible…
You’ll never get there.
This is the only reason it took me 5 years to unf*ck myself instead of a couple of months.
I didn’t trust the vision, so I kept regressing into my comforting bad habits.
Consider this:
Has it EVER been done before?
Then it’s achievable.
Also, do these to glow up your self-image:
- Daily meditation
- Read “Psychocybernetics” by Dr. Maltz
- Read “Transurfing Reality in 78 Days” by Zeland
You got this.

TRUTH # 5 | Distractions keep you sedated.
When you start placing your attention on the right habits…
Everything changes.
It’s becomes a matter of time until you are fit, rich, and attractive.
But the opposite is also true.
Every hour spent on social media or streamed entertainment is your potential FLUSHED down the toilet.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s an easy trap to fall into.
There’s entire industries dedicated to turn your attention into profit.
But once you resist…
You win.

TRUTH # 6 | Don’t fight discomfort.
Growth happens outside of the comfort zone.
- I got fitter after I made my workouts harder
- I got more dates after I took bigger social risks
It all happens once you ask yourself:
How can I better myself?
And then start with the first step.
Sure, you might feel nervous as a beginner…
But on the other side is your new life.

TRUTH # 7 | No one is coming to save you.
If I didn’t push myself into this life…
I would still be the same directionless kid as I was in my early 20s.
It’s up to YOU to make life happen.
No one is going to care otherwise.
So just invest the time.
You’ll get what you want.
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