May 24, 2025 4 min read

7 Habits That Make You Dangerously Attractive

I once went a calendar year without a single date.

Loose handshakes were hot action for me.

Sh*t was tragic.

Here I was in my prime with four functioning limbs…

Alone.

Incapacitated by my mindset.

I’ve had a number of wake up calls since then.

And thankfully — I beat involuntary monkhood.

Here’s how I did it…

HABIT # 1 | GET JACKED

This is where 80% of the magic happens.

Once I built an aesthetic body…

Life changed.

Hit the gym and your DMs will be flooded bro.

Why?

A ripped man will always outcompete the regular guy.

It doesn’t matter if she’s a librarian or pop star.

A fit body is universally attractive.

I found this out after “reserved” women starting texting me fantasies.

Trust me…

This was not happening when I was a Wendy’s platinum club member.

Prioritize your body —

Now you’re on easy mode.

Here’s the complete guide:

HABIT # 2 | GET AESTHETIC

You don’t need to mew or ink up your forehead.

Timeless appeal…

Well-groomed beard + professional haircut
Contacts over glasses
Simple skincare regimen (cleanser + sunscreen)
Dental cleanup every 6 months

It also helps if you don’t dress like a teenager.

For fashion inspo…

Type in “old money aesthetic men” into images and borrow your favorite outfits.

Keep it simple.

HABIT # 3 | TAKE PICS

When used properly…

Online dating is a highly leveraged tool.

This means that one AMAZING profile sends you straight to utopia.

So if you’re struggling to get matches…

Stop blowing your paycheck on boosts.

Reinvest.

Most men load up the mirror selfies and pray for the best.

Instead…

Hire a professional photographer to glow up your profile, or grab a female friend to snap a few quality pics.

The bar is set incredibly low.

Take advantage of it.

HABIT # 4 | START TALKING

You KNOW that dating is a numbers game.

But it’s still difficult for you to actually talk to women.

Right?

I had this issue for years — until I changed my mindset.

Instill the fact that you are a highly attractive, confident man with unlimited options.

This removes the pedestal effect that plagues many men.

Next…

Conversate with everyone.

Not just the 10/10 Adriana Lima at your gym.

Why?

Asking her out is a skill that requires daily practice.

If you wait until you “find the one…”

You’ll be too stuck in your head to make a move.

Tips…

Use an icebreaker (question or compliment)
Realize it takes less than 60 seconds

Terminate the lonely nights.

80% of communication is nonverbal.

Don’t try to impress her with tales from last weekend.

She doesn’t care.

Ask about her life and inject humor.

Listen.

While you’re there…

Stand up straight
Make eye contact
Head tilt
Slow movements
Sly smile

No need to memorize monologues.

HABIT # 6 | GO APPLY

I thought that reading self-improvement books would change my life.

But guess what?

They didn’t do sh*t.

UNTIL I actually applied what I learned.

And there’s only one book you need for dating…

“Dating Essentials For Men” by Dr. Glover

Find a friend or mentor on the same grind.

Use them as an accountability partner to test the theories.

Go from armchair to IRL.

HABIT # 7 | HIT THE ROAD

A few years ago I went on a solo trip to Spain.

My only intention was to eat pan con tomate.

But surprisingly…

I ended up going on more dates in 1 week than 3 months back home.

My conclusion?

Since I was staying in hostels and constantly meeting new people…

My automatic setting was to socialize.

As I result — more interactions with women by default.

Go travel.

Show yourself the possibilities.

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