Dangerously Honest Advice from a Controversial Woman

A while back I was visiting one of my college friends in NYC right? 

She works in one of those fancy buildings and lives an aesthetic lifestyle. 

We connected over our passion for international travel, and ended up keeping in touch over the years. 

One thing I like about her is her lack of filter. 

Anything I ask gets answered — 

No BS. 

It makes for a great stream of feminine consciousness. 

So while strolling in the park, I ask her: 

“Hey, what do you look for in a man?”

Here’s all she wrote. 

# 1 | They have an interesting life 

Guys are often attracted to the introverted homebody type of woman. 

But the opposite is NOT true. 

Don’t be the guy that plays Skyrim in the basement all day. 

Attraction aside…

There’s just more to life than pixels on a screen. 

Get outside. 

DO COOL SH*T. 

• Learn how to fish. 
• Ski some bunny slopes. 
• Practice Italian. 

It honestly doesn’t matter what you do, as long you’re passionate about it.

And make some guy friends. 

This will help ground you for the long-term and regulate your male aura. 

# 2 | They have a nice body 

Yeah…

I knew this one was true. 

But it was nice to hear it point blank haha. 

Men…

There is nothing stopping you from building the body you crave. 

Want to know how? 

It boils down to 3 things: 

• Lift 3-4 days/week 
• Progressive overload 
• Protein intake 

That’s it. 

You do these three things and you’re Him. 

Dedicate the next 6 months to a bulletproof gym habit. 

Go make Michelangelo look like a noob.

The returns are exponential. 

# 3 | They have a good sense of humor 

She told me that a sense of humor is like an automatic “yess pleasee.” 

It shows confidence, which is universally attractive ofc. 

The best way to be funny? 

Relax. 

When you’re stressed about making her like you…

It shows. 

The conversation becomes stale. 

Toned down. 

Generic. 

You’re talking about the 7-DAY FORECAST when you should be eliciting emotion. 

Stop attaching yourself to the results my guy. 

Have fun. 

# 4 | They know their style 

Unless you’re Adam Sandler in the flesh…

You gotta put that sh*t on. 

(PS Adam Sandler if you’re reading this 50 first dates was a vibe)

Anyways — 

Women PRAY for the day men stop wearing One Piece tees out in public. 

Now everyone has their own sensibilities…

But a good fit is more than just skinny jeans and monogram tees.  

Here’s what I recommend: 

#1 — go to a trendy store (HM, Zara) with a woman who LOVES fashion

#2 — develop a universally attractive style (think old money aesthetic)

#3 — donate your hand me downs to your less drippy cousin 

Will it be expensive? 

Only if you have the wrong mindset. 

Invest in yourself king.

There is no budget for your own improvement. 

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