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How Not To Die Alone

Imagine I drop you into the middle of a foreign country. 

Yeah, you’re covering the Google Maps dude today haha. 

Let’s say the country is modern and English speaking. 

Like Lithuania. 

Money is a non issue — but you are totally alone.

Now…

What 3 skills are going to GUARANTEE you don’t die alone? 

Here are my findings after months of travel.


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# 1 | CODE OF LAW 

Before I started taking aesthetics seriously…

I took a similar pin drop trip to Germany. 

I’ll spare you the details — 

But after weeks of rejection, I left the country entirely dateless. 

Cue the Green Day anthem.

Anyways…

It turns out all those twitter wisdoms don’t work. 

Why? 

The truth is, even though women are less visual than men…

THEY STILL CARE. 

And you can either make excuses or make progress bro. 

A ripped physique is universally attractive. 

Hot body = more dates.

It’s really that simple. 

Those “bulletproof” pickup lines?

Internet copium. 

I’ve done both — and there’s a clear winner. 

Build the body of your dreams. 

Stressing is over. 

# 2 | TRAINED MINDSET 

Ask any woman on the planet and she says…

“I love a confident man.” 

But what exactly does that mean? 

Confidence is a set of behaviors:

Eye contact, standing up straight, calm voice…

These are trained over time.

Here’s the catch:

Confidence REQUIRES a certain mindset for it to grow. 

If you grew up particularly unpopular with the ladies…

You know what I’m talking about. 

The imposter syndrome conundrum.

So how do you hit refresh? 

  1. Mantras  
  2. Proof

I mantra up for 10–15 minutes a day, and it’s a game changer. 

But the real money shot is in the proof. 

Lets discuss…

# 3 | TESTING  

I discovered this while reading “Dating Essentials For Men” by Dr. Glover. 

But for it to work…

First erase the idea of “proper behavior.” 

Not trying to be an edgy Gen Z kid — 

But you will CONTINUE to make excuses otherwise: 

“I don’t want to be weird”

You’re not an NPC right? 

Then why let self-imposed limitations determine how you live?

Now for the “testing.”

When chatting with a woman you’re into…

All you’re doing is looking for high or low interest. 

It’s just to satisfy your curiosity.

Nothing more. 

It doesn’t matter if she’s Ana de Armas bro. 

This is my framework: 

  1. Eye contact with posture 
  2. Genuine listening 
  3. “Give me your number & let’s meet for coffee tomorrow.” 

Again…

The response DOES NOT MATTER. 

The undeniable proof you are looking for is your ability to test across different environments. 

Because the more you test without attachment to outcome — 

The further away dying alone becomes.