How to be an attractive introvert

Dear (fellow) introverts…

You don’t need to morph into a socialite to manifest the woman of your dreams. 

I’ve had moments where I’ve gotten zero attention doing the most. 

And days where I’ve had numbers handed to me after a few words. 

The truth? 

It’s all internal. 

Note — 

This doesn’t mean you should cocoon at home all day. 

But master these five qualities…

And your interactions change dramatically. 

# 1 | RELAXED 

I’ve noticed something funny about life…

The more you want it, the less likely you’ll actually get it. 

Why?

The pedestal changes things. 

It’s probably why you act nervous when you’re obsessing over your crush. 

Kinda like Morty. 

Chasing is an instinctual drive. 

Kill the thrill, and you’re gonna end up hearing…

“I don’t want to play with you anymore.”

The solution?

Remove yourself from attachment. 

Of course, apply effort and make the moves. 

But whatever happens, happens. 

# 2 | UNFILTERED

Think about a highly confident, charismatic man who you know. 

What do they sound like?

Communication is everything.

From posture to the power in your eyes.

Even your choice of words. 

Consider this: 

“Um yeah, I think coffee is a good plan, what do you think?”

VS.

“Let’s go. I’ll drive.” 

Which sounds better?

Luckily, the path to an undeniable presence is easy.

No Pop Smoke vocals required. 

Just practice this: 

Non-thinking.

Why?

Thinking causes you to “play it safe.”

Ironically, the more imaginary convos you have with your crush…

The worse they turn out IRL. 

Speak your mind.

Live in the moment. 

# 3 | CONFIDENCE

Would you rather be the world’s best writer or the best marketer? 

For me, it’s obvious. 

Let the work speak for itself. 

Attraction isn’t that different. 

Here’s what you can do actionably: 

• Self-improve 
• Embrace failure 

Once you transform your mindset…

Sky is the limit. 

# 4 | PRIMETIME  

Become the hero in your story. 

How? 

Have goals.

Grind towards them. 

“But I don’t know what I want…” 

That’s okay. 

Think about it. 

Deeply. 

Once you break down the walls and discover yourself…

Your life becomes irresistible. 

# 5 | CALM 

One of the most attractive qualities…

Calmness. 

Why?

It gives a certain “IDGAF” energy. 

Think James Bond. 

For introverts, calm is second nature. 

But don’t forget — 

Know when to hold firm.

Cheers. 

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