How to Dress as an Attractive Grown Man

The moment you start dressing like an attractive man…

Dating changes. 

Suddenly, you go from background extra to main character. 

Women start to take notice —

“Finally a man who takes care of himself.”

No more Naruto tees and baggy sweats. 

Here’s how to dress with grown man aesthetic…

# 1 | GARMETS 

A single garment can have you go from broke pedestrian to boyfriend material. 

What’s the secret? 

See, most men don’t put any effort into the way they dress. 

The bar is set tragically low. 

So all you have to do is make one switch: 

Wear button ups. 

Women love the “put together” look. 

Leave a few buttons undone, and you’re limitless. 

There’s two caveats here: 

You’re ripped. 

OR…

You’re layering.

In the case of being jacked — clothes don’t matter. 

You can fashion a plastic bag and still be attractive. 

Otherwise…

When you’re picking colors, do this: 

• Buy a black, tan, and navy shirt (neutral colors that suit most men) 
• Ensure they fit perfectly
• Dump your graphic tees in the woods (or donate them)

You’re instantly up 2 points. 

# 2 | BOTTOMS

Which ones are we going for? 

The most important thing about your pants is the way they fit.

Unless you’re an aspiring rapper, avoid baggy clothes like the coronavirus. 

They’ll make you look shorter and unkept. 

Now when in doubt — 

Chino pants. 

Why? 

Chinos are THE most versatile pants you can own. 

Date nights, casual social outings, or a quick trip to Chipotle…

They compliment everything (and come off easily). 

On top of that — the average guy wears jeans, sweatpants, or shorts. 

With chinos, you’ll ooze sophistication.

Stand out from the masses. 

# 3 | LAYERED  

By this point, that beautiful babe is praying you ask her out.

But to really put that sh*t on… 

Layer your fit with a jacket. 

There’s 3 essentials every man should own:

• Bomber jacket 
• Suit jacket
• Collared jacket

Pick neutral colors, or ones that match your skin tone. 

Lighter colors pop on darker tones. 

Darker colors on lighter tones. 

The right jacket should look good on a plain white tee. 

Keep experimenting until you find the one. 

# 4 | KICKS 

DJ Khaled has a massive closet dedicated to his shoe collection.

But you only need three: 

• White sneakers 
• Brown dressy shoes 
• A comfort pair (whatever you like) 

For my short kings, a pair of Hokas or AF1s can add some altitude without raising eyebrows. 

One shoe to avoid at all costs…

Slides. 

Wear these in public and you can kiss your aesthetic dreams goodnight.

# 5 | GAZE

There’s one accessory that’s gotten me more compliments than Johnny Depp in his prime. 

I never get tired of hearing these four words: 

“I love your ring.”

Never fails to catch the female gaze. 

It also breaks the touch barrier on those first dates. 

What’s the science?

Everyone and their dad rocks an apple watch, so there’s no intrigue. 

Too basic. 

Rings are more select.

Silver for an edgy look.

Gold is old money.

I go tungsten or stainless steel.

Match according to your preference.