It’s just us...
It took me a long time to understand…
Nobody is coming to lift you up from the bottom.
If you want the life of your dreams…
You have to ruthlessly take your position amongst the stars.
Make no mistake…
Nature is a competitive place.
Men who attract will every option available to them.
The average man will struggle.
And some will exit the game entirely.
This isn’t theory.
It’s happening as we speak.
Life isn’t fair.
But it’s worth the squeeze.
Here’s how…
habit # 1 | growth mindset
You dictate your own opportunity.
If you’re out of shape and have no clue how to talk to her…
She’s just going to open up her phone and move on to the next one.
No one cares.
Tap into your superpowers.
While everyone else is indulging in sensory waste…
Build your body, mind, income…
I went through countless sympathy chats and pep talks.
None of it worked.
Growth in the form of repeated failure is the only thing that saved me.
habit # 2 | focus
Wake up and cut off the rest of the world.
No phone.
Just work.
In order to become the man you’ve always wanted to be…
- Hit the gym
- Consume your weight in grams protein
- Read non-fiction
- Learn how to iterate
No vacations.
Once you find motion — you’ll feel better at work anyways.
habit # 3 | self-work
Most of us have spent decades being the underdog.
The ghost.
So how do you shift your mindset into a king?
Stack proof.
Tell yourself that you are the most capable man alive.
Use a streak of completed goals to reinforce your belief.
That’s it.
80% of the game is inside your own head.
habit # 4 | stop running
It’s a lonely road with nobody else around.
But if you commit yourself for just enough time…
You’ll have the power to anything you want.
You don’t need easy.
You need this.
habit # 5 | direction
Find what you want.
Chase it till your heart gives out.
Write down your dreams to the smallest detail.
Down to the type of fabric you’ll rest on.
Envision it.
Only make decisions that bring you closer to this goal.
Most never think about their direction in life.
They simply follow the crowd.
You’ve already won.
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