Let them miss you.

So back in college, I used to watch this one YouTuber called LimitlessEXP right? 

He was one of those OG pickup artists who shared his rendezvous in full 720P.

Anyways…

I was experiencing a doomsday level drought at the time and needed some motivation to boost up my prospects.

So after a late-night of YouTube inspired reflections…

I vowed to stop giving AF and ask out 7 women on campus (either recent crushes or randos).

It didn’t matter. 

This week is pretty engraved into my cortex, but I’ll spare you the details and just share my stats from the free throw line: 

3 — “Sorry, I have a boyfriend.” 

2 — “But we’re friends though…”

2— “Sure.”

The “sures” never actually texted back.

It’s funny now because I’m wiser and can see through the absurdity of my testosterone-induced logic. 

As grown man, my question is always: 

What happens when you stop chasing and start building?

Everyone thinks you’re a loser? 

F*ck it. 

Let them miss you. 

At some point, you have to detach yourself from distractions and just focus.

This is the most efficient way to get what you want. 

Switch off the instant gratification. 

Dial in. 

Will a few Tinder matches help you feel validated in the moment?

Sure. 

But do you REALLY want a few fleeting experiences with uninterested women…

Or do you never worry about attraction again? 

“Your calendar today determines your life 6 months from now.” — Mozi 

If you’re spending your days on black and orange YT…

How can you expect to be anything more than average?

It’s like depositing $0.00 into the Chase and wondering why you’re still broke. 

Now I have good news and bad news…

The bad news:

Progress is always more challenging in the beginning. 

The rewards are small or nonexistent. 

And the effort is high. 

This is due to the nature of compound interest — all of the benefits are late stage. 

Think of it like the music industry: 

Freshmen year gets you paid in peanuts for 8 hour shifts inside sweaty Hamburg nightclubs.

Senior year it’s lit. 

So…

Know that you WILL have an inevitable 6–12 months of grinding by your lonesome. 

The good news:

Becoming highly attractive is much easier than achieving international acclaim. 

This routine took me from 0/7 (literally) to generational charisma: 

• Lift weights 
• Abs / cardio 
• Cook healthy, protein-rich food 
• Skincare + hydration 
• Read & meditate 

Here’s why you should start today…

Other than suffering from success…

There is NO DOWNSIDE to becoming the most attractive version of yourself. 

99% of women are going to pick the fit, stylish, and confident king over the common bloke. 

This isn’t unfair — it’s just nature. 

So make it easier on yourself. 

Stop chasing.

Start working. 

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