Men, before you quit dating…read this

Make the change and become irresistible 

It’s sad to see…

Young men today have given up on the idea of a rich dating life. 

But dating success is easier than you think.  

In other words — 

You DON’T have to live in the Sahara. 

How?

Three ways to create the dating life you deserve…

# 1 | BUILD-A-LIFE

Just for a minute — imagine your life is a full feature film. 

They even got Bradley Pitt to play you. 

Would YOU go watch it? 

If the answer is no, you’re overdue for change. 

I’m not saying quit your day job and go into the wild… 

But can you expect a fun, passionate partner if your life is dry B-reel?  

Don’t get complacent. 

Build your life. 

Meet new people, try strange foods, travel to foreign lands…

“Sir but what if I have no hobbies”

Find some.

Here’s a framework that I use:

One creative hobby

This could be learning the piano, painting contemporary art, or editing YouTube videos.

One physical hobby

It has to be beyond going to the gym. Think MMA, surfing, golf…

One social hobby 

Anything that get’s you around people. Salsa, language, and volunteering are great ones. 

Swap out an hour of scrolling for one of these (even just once a week), and watch your plot thicken. 

# 2 | SOCIAL IQ

Talk to everyone.

This builds social superpowers. 

Eventually, start connecting with women you find attractive. 

How? 

Gauge interest with small talk, then escalate the interaction if you sense a vibe.

Playful humor, touch, deeper conversation…

Remember — always take the lead. 

Don’t be afraid to be direct. 

Compare these:

“What are you doing next weekend?”

VS.

“Let’s walk the beach Thursday at 5:00.”

You can even use the invite method: 

“A few friends and I are going karaoke tomorrow. Come with.” 

Confidence is highly-desirable, so when you come in with THAT energy…

It’s a 10x multiplier.

# 3 | FEEDBACK LOOPS

I know. 

“Confidence” is allegedly the solution to all of man’s problems. 

And sure, you can repeat “I’m confident” 1000 times in the mirror every morning...

But the truth is — 

Confidence is part of a larger feedback loop. 

It doesn’t just appear out of thin air.

So how do actually build confidence? 

Fall in love with failure and rejection. 

Then…

Hit the gym. 

Work on your mindset. 

Become the best version of yourself. 

People will take note of your glow up and reciprocate attention. 

And guess what?

Your confidence shoots up, and the rest is history. 

But remember — 

Start now. 

The camera only rolls once…

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