No one is coming to save you.
A few years ago I was dating this city girl from LA.
Even though we lived apart, we would stay up and text each every night.
Things were great.
At least that’s what I thought.
Two months in…
I buy us concert tickets for this indie band she liked.
She seemed excited.
But a few days before the show…
Her line goes stone cold.
I’m thinking that something grave must have happened, until I get a text:
“Hey, I don’t think I’m ready for anything serious right now. I’m really sorry.”
Although I was a nice guy at the time…
I knew this was code for “go f*ck yourself.”
And I was validated.
She starts seeing a buff finance dude a couple weeks later.
I could have drowned myself in reddit addictions to numb the pain.
But this was a wakeup call.
My entire life I did things “right.”
Studied hard, shared generously, sacrificed my time for others…
But in the end —
Who cared about me?
So I decided to boss my life up and never go back.
Here’s what I did…
# 1 | find your power
Nobody can tell you what to do.
There is always a positive and negative to any action.
But I’ll share what worked for me.
80% of man’s problems are solved by two things…
- Get into the best shape of your life
- Earn your own income remotely
Like it or not —
This is capital in the modern world.
Fitness solves your attraction issues, and digital income buys freedom.
When I was broke and blobbed out…
I had no options and zero respect.
But everything changes once you advance yourself in these two areas.
You’ll fly to any city and have a vibe waiting for you.
Stop wasting attention on people that don’t give AF about you.
Focus on your life.
# 2 | visions
Meaningful change REQUIRES risk.
And you won’t be able to take them until you stop fearing judgement.
Most people default to hate.
So who cares?
They’re not the ones walking in your shoes.
If you’re unhappy with your current situation…
Take action.
Doing the more of the same is not going create change.
Ask yourself…
- What do you really want to do?
- How do you really want to live?
Turn off all the BS until you answer these two questions.
# 3 | the realization
Average habits equal an average life.
I never wanted to go back to a life of mediocrity, where I was one of the walking dead.
So I had to quit following the standardized life plan.
It’s not easy.
You have to remove yourself from societal norms, and your peers won’t understand it.
But as long as your days are bringing you closer to your dreams…
Forget the noise.
Save yourself.
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