No One Is Coming To Save You (Focus On This And Save Yourself)

About 6 years ago, I found myself in a catastrophic situation.

The girl I saw myself building a life with sent me a text:

“I don’t love you anymore”

At least that was the translation. 

It felt out of the blue. 

She said she wanted some time to discover herself…

But a few weeks later, she was cuddled up with another man in a 2013 Mustang. 

Wow. 

I spent the next few weeks inside, honestly more confused than heartbroken. 

“Bro, why am I such a lame?”

I couldn’t figure out it. 

This wasn’t my first romantic failure — but it felt bad man. 

Eventually, I called up my best friend who sat down and listened to me vent. 

It helped, but it didn’t solve my problems. 

Fast forward to present day…

The same friend and I are chatting about books and life plans. 

He recommends me something: 

“Turning Pro” by Steven Pressfield. 

Man.

As I’m reading the book, I immediately think — 

“Damn, where has this been the whole time?”

I guess it was meant for me to take the long way up. 

But you don’t have to struggle like I did bro. 

Here’s what I learned on leaving your unattractive life behind…

# 1 | SHADOW LIFE 

After years of painful improvement, my essence is completely different. 

Granted it’s a lifelong process — 

But my attraction problems would have been solved with much less tragedy had I read this book sooner. 

Imagine your ideal lifestyle right now. 

Maybe it’s living in an 80th floor apartment eating oysters with Victoria's Secret. 

Or maybe it’s starting a family on farmland in middle America. 

Decide it. 

Now, the only thing stopping you from reaching those dreams is the comfort of your amateur life. 

The amateur craves validation. 

So they fall in love with whoever gives them the time of day. 

Better days get pushed to “tomorrow.” 

Most men exist in this shadow of their potential.

They’re bachelors living in self-imposed solitude, or dating women they don’t love.

No one is coming to save you. 

It’s time to quit the BS.

Turn Pro. 

# 2 | THE TRUTH 

You can use the principles of ‘Turning Pro” to accomplish anything in life.

But you can only choose one mission. 

This is because the amount of time you have to dedicate to a specific goal is intensive and requires multiple habits. 

So if your goal is to never worry about attraction again…

You’re in the right place.

Becoming the most attractive version of yourself comes with perks.

• You will have more romantic options. 
• You will earn more. 
• You will have insane levels of confidence. 

Just to name a few. 

It’s like holding the platinum member card to life. 

Ready? 

# 3 | DISTRACTIONS 

Turning Pro at its core is actually simple. 

You have to create a vision. 

Cut the distractions. 

And work on sh*t that actually moves the needle. 

So what exactly are these distractions? 

Distractions keep you away from your calling. 

They are useless addictions — repetitive activities in which the payoff is nonexistent. 

This is the late night Netflix binges, the temporary internet gratification, the last call at the bar…

Now — 

The real currency of life is attention. 

Sure, you might have the TIME to scroll away a few meaningless minutes. 

But do you have the expendable attention?

The same attention that could change everything?

The amateur is entrenched in bullsh*t.

The Pro spends his attention incrementally improving his life. 

That’s all there is. 

The distance between you and that aesthetic body or magnetic lifestyle is in the work you’re avoiding.

But today is the day your amateur chapter closes.

Let the new one open. 

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