The 5 Easiest Dating Tips for Introverts

tip #3: the boys

My fellow introverts…

You don’t have to metamorph into James Bond to find dating success. 

But if you’re spending every Friday night binging the Tube…

You need a new game plan. 

Luckily, it’s not that complicated. 

Ready to switch up the vibe? 

Here are the 5 easiest ways to spice up your dating life — 

TIP # 1 | MINDSET 

Before we dive too deep into the sauce…

Remember that being introverted is NOT the same as being a hermit. 

In other words…

You CAN be an introvert with S-tier social skills. 

How? 

First, ask yourself the question:

“How do I perceive myself?”

Is it Price Charming? Or Dracula? 

This is important. 

Basically, if you see yourself as someone that hides at the crib all day — 

That’s exactly how you’ll act. 

Change your mindset. 

Picture yourself as a “confident, attractive king.” 

A daily mantra helps download the belief. 

Now it’s time for execution…

TIP # 2 | NEW ROUTES 

Introverts are notorious for staying in their comfort zone. 

I love a solid routine as much as the next guy…

But going from the bed to the sh!tter to the bed isn’t doing you favors.

Expanding your routes is ESSENTIAL for dating success. 

Why? 

It puts you around people you wouldn’t meet otherwise. 

Personally, I like to check out different spots on the weekend and see what happens. 

Add these to your Maps: 

• New coffee shops 
• Farmer’s markets 
• Clothing stores 
• Parks 

Who knows?

You might find future wifey in one of these locales.

Life happens outside. 

TIP # 3 | THE BOYS

This might seem contradictory…

But having a close network of guy friends actually IMPROVES your dating odds.

Why? 

It’s not just about talking to Zendayas. 

When you’re with the boys, interacting with strangers becomes infinitely less stressful. 

Especially as an introvert. 

It also heats up your social chops. 

If you’re lacking in the friend department — join groups based on your hobbies. 

Outside of college, this is where you’ll find people most open to making new friends. 

TIP # 4 | RISKY BUSINESS 

A few years ago, I created this principle called the “law of numbers.” 

Sounds fancy, right? 

It’s actually straightforward, and highly effective once you understand it. 

Here’s the premise: 

Even with a tragically low 1% success rate…

You can enjoy the dating life of your dreams.

How? 

Repetition. 

Push yourself to ask out women regularly. 

No hesitation. 

Platonic or romantic, it doesn’t matter. 

The point is to practice exiting your comfort zone. 

Eventually, the fear of rejection disintegrates. 

The best part? 

Your success rate increases as you become socially attuned — 

And confidence becomes second nature. 

TIP # 5 | APP FREE  

You might be wondering…

“What about dating apps?” 

If you’re already 99+ on the apps — have fun. 

The problem is that most men use dating apps as a replacement for real-life interaction…

Which means they’re hella saturated. 

In other words — 

Don’t use apps to avoid the challenge of meeting women organically. 

In fact, it’s easier to match IRL because you’ll stand out from the competition. 

Combine this with basic self-improvement, and a rich dating life is yours.