The Attractive Mindset For Men

Like a lot of young men…

My early 20s were plagued by rejection and low confidence. 

I used to scour the internet for a solution to my dating woes, but just left feeling more confused than ever. 

90% of the advice out there is complete BS. 

But after a series of failures, I figured it out. 

It wasn’t random chance either. 

I had to change my mindset and the way I invested my time. 

Takes sacrifice — but you won’t regret the transformation. 

Here’s what I did…

HABIT # 1 | detachment  

It’s impossible to take risks if you’re constantly overthinking every detail. 

“What if she thinks I’m a weirdo creep?” 

Our default setting is to worry. 

We’re from the treacherous savannah after all. 

But are these worries actually serving you? 

No sir. 

It’s time to get rid of them. 

Your goal as a man is to detach yourself from any expectations. 

How? 

Daily practice through meditation. 

My personal style involves…

1. Paying attention to my thoughts 
2. Identify the negative ones  
3. Replace with mantras on attraction 

Brainwash yourself until it’s second nature. 

Over time — you’ll shift from a worried kid to calm king. 

Women ask me how I’m so relaxed…

It’s because I don’t care. 

HABIT # 2 | bodybuilding 

Nowadays lifting heavy metal is like therapy for me. 

But at first, it was a tough habit to build. 

I would…

• Workout for 3 months 
• Get zero results 
• Blame genetics and rage quit

This continued until a brutal December where my crush decided to pick a douchy classmate over me. 

Resulting in a sad and lonely NYE. 

No hate, because it gave me the answer I needed. 

Get into the BEST shape of your life. 

It undeniably boosts your attraction. 

They’ll come. 

HABIT # 3 | get fresh 

For my fellow North Americans…

Its time to step up our style. 

Because God forbid your wifey runs into a suited up European. 

Jokes aside — you can excel easily here. 

Stop wearing anime shirts and clothes that don’t fit. 

REFINE your wardrobe into a collection of classic pieces for any situation. 

Collared shirts, chino pants, clean shoes…

Dress like the man and you’ll feel like it. 

Groom yourself too: 

• Regular haircuts 
• Contacts > glasses 
• Groomed facial hair 
• Classy watch 

You’re winning. 

HABIT # 4 | interactions

You won’t find your dream girl scrolling Reddit bro. 

Put in the time & effort into your social funnels. 

Here’s what works: 

1. Social groups (meetups, salsa classes, run clubs) 
2. IRL (being out and about)
3. Travel
4. Dating apps 

And I wish I accepted this truth earlier…

You can’t fixate on one woman. 

I know — it doesn’t sound very Disney. 

But this is reality in the modern world. 

Dating is a numbers game, and you need to keep playing until you’re in. 

If you’re an introvert like I used to be…

• Purposefully schedule time for social activities. 
• Get a friend to help curate your dating profile 

Don’t rely on “feeling like it,” because you won’t. 

DO what’s required. 

HABIT # 5 | get checks 

Benjamins are important for the purpose of freedom…

And without it…

Life feels like a constant gamble. 

But don’t attract solely based on your bank account. 

If she thinks that 100K is poverty wages — 

Pass. 

Here’s how to utilize your money instead: 

• Health
• Time 
• New experiences
• Personal growth 

All making you more attractive by elevating your physical and mental. 

This is the real status symbol to life. 

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Be magnetic…

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