The High Price of Never Changing Yourself
Last weekend I was visiting an old friend who lives a few hours away.
It did not end well.
We were making plans for the night when I suggested we grab some Russian food and take a late night walk through the city.
Seemed like a good idea to me.
Chuckling — he told me that we should hit the clubs instead.
For a night of liquor, drama, and debauchery.
I’m good bro.
Truth is…
I felt bad for him.
I left that BS back in 2018.
And not everyone is going to understand this…
But I just want success.
You guys can keep all that other sh*t.
For me — the point of aging is evolution.
The price of not changing otherwise is simply too high.
Here’s why…
# 1 | be your own individual
I met this woman named Aria a few years ago while traveling to Paris for the winter holidays.
We shared a conversation about relationships at a cafe near the Parthenon.
She disclosed to me that her BIGGEST turn off is a man who can’t think for himself…
Following others around like a lost puppy.
And that always stuck with me.
In order to turn zero into ten…
You MUST set your goal and push nonsense to the side.
Don’t follow trends and others who look like they’re having more fun.
Because they’re not.
The average man spends every waking hour in distraction, away from the work required for self-discovery.
You’re meant for more than that.
Question everything —
Are those decided paths serving you or are they fruitless?
# 2 | external metamorphosis
Despite what others claim…
Your physical transformation is a fine place to start.
Changing your outer shell decreases friction for inner change.
How?
It creates a visual reminder of the type of man you are...
- Lift weights
- New wardrobe
- Organize your space
A fit body represents discipline and vitality.
Proper linens separate you from the hordes of mediocre.
Organize your space to declutter your mind.
Don’t stay the same man as you were last year.
Evolve.
Otherwise you might wake up and find yourself as a frail insect.
# 3 | making the call
Here’s the brutal truth…
Men who invest into themselves DAILY soon turn highly attractive.
The rest are left heartbroken in Hawaii (without Mila Kunis).
So if you aren’t making any tangible progress in your life right now…
It’s because you haven’t changed enough.
Reevaluate…
- What are you optimizing for?
- What do you lose by NOT doing this?
- How can you improve?
I know that this isn’t easy.
But you gain nothing by blaming the game for your problems.
Focus your energy on action.
Drop the BS like a bad habit.
It’s your time.
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