The No BS Escape Plan for Average Guys
A few years ago I was hanging out with one of my older friends.
He’s my mentor now.
Anyways, I’m complaining to him about my dating struggles in this BF town we used to live in.
It had been awhile, and even the trees were starting to look curvy.
He casually says…
“Really bro? I pulled two girls this week.”
“Prove it.”
He pulls out his Tinder — and my sh*t drops.
My brother had enough matches to make Dave Franco look like a charlatan.
Wow.
I badly wanted to escape my problems as a mediocre man.
The ghosting, monotony, loneliness…
So began my journey —
And the rest was history.
Here’s how I ditched my unattractive life for good.
STEP # 1 | GET RIPPED
A rich dating life requires opportunity.
And one quality guarantees this…
A fit body.
Why?
Regardless if you live in stucco suburbia or Barcelona Spain…
An aesthetic build is UNIVERSALLY attractive.
It’s not just eye candy for the female gaze.
Your body signals discipline and masculinity — highly desirable traits.
So how do you do it?
Two parts…
Gym
- Follow a training split 3–4 days/week
- Progressive overload
Diet
- Eat protein
- Caloric surplus or deficit
After 6 months of following the above, women suddenly began flirting with me in public.
Coming from the invisible life of a skinny fat nerd…
It was like entering a parallel universe.
All it takes is the initial discipline.
STEP # 2 | STATUS
Status is attractive, but it’s not about superyachts and indoor tennis courts.
It’s your dress code.
When you present yourself as a grown ass man…
She knows that you have your sh*t together.
Dressing like a teenager at the Manga Convention gets you treated like one (no offense).
Again…
Expensive DOES NOT mean attractive.
Otherwise throwing on a Gucci shirt would wash away your woes.
Women like details:
Fitting, shoes, accessories, your aroma…
If this sounds too complicated, there is an easier solution…
Just get ripped.
STEP # 3 | LEVERAGE
Once you build the body and establish your style…
Use leverage.
How?
- Have a friend take objectively good photos of you
- Post them on dating apps
Truth is…
After years of rejection, they’ve left a sour taste in my mouth.
But dating apps are incredibly effective once you’re in the top 20%.
Don’t blame the game — the algos are not going anywhere.
Make it work for you.
STEP # 4 | DIGITAL
Men ahead of the curve have already figured this out…
Earning digitally changes everything.
Why live in a gloomy town for 3K a month…
When you could be on wine dates in Italy?
Optimize your location to pursue niche hobbies, integrate into lively social communities, or just try something different.
After touching grass in more than a dozen countries…
Places are greener than others.
Think big.
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