This Is Why Being Average Is Dangerous
3 years ago I found myself at another loss.
The woman I had been talking to hit me with a memo…
“You’re a great guy, but things are just busy right now.”
It was over boys.
Growing up as a kid obsessed with absolute cinema…
I wanted life to be a Scorsese instead of a loss compilation.
But every year I just ended up deeper in the red.
Empty handed and older.
Before your heart turns into chrome…
Rethink everything.
Examination.
Whether you see it or not…
You have immense value.
And your potential is limitless.
But without proper reflection — confidence will elude you.
How do you change this?
- Observe your thoughts
- Remove your false beliefs
Your perspective is meant to serve you.
Put your past notions in a coffin.
You decide how you live now.
Practice this exercise:
Method act until you’re the most confident person in the room.
Use an alter ego if needed.
Channel your highest form.
Discipline.
You owe it to yourself to lead a disciplined life.
And your level of fitness is a direct representation of this.
Don’t let others convince you that it’s unimportant or impossible.
That’s a mistake.
In life — you’re either the hero or an extra.
The film only rolls once.
Be that guy.
Do so many pull ups on them that they can’t help but watch.
When they make excuses for your excellence…
It’s real.
Paths.
Some nights I started at the ceiling fan wondering where I f*cked up.
One morning it answered back…
“You stopped following your own compass.”
Desperately trying to stay “normal” to appease your peers.
You don’t win an Academy shooting TikToks.
The truth is…
If you have a burning desire — anything is possible.
- Ask yourself how you can do it
- Set milestones
- Get to work
Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown…
But it’s easier to bear its weight than die mediocre again.
Disregard the path of comfort.
Stay on your mission.
You won’t regret it.
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