What 95% of Men Don't Understand About Attraction
You ever watch Beauty and the Beast?
If it’s been a while, it’s essentially about this princess who falls in love with a literal beast.
I know, spoiler alert.
But guess what?
Life doesn’t work like a Disney movie.
In real life…
You’re going to be hard pressed finding the LOYL if you’re not visually appealing AND taking risks on the daily.
You can’t sit around crying and complaining either.
Otherwise you’re gonna miss the plot.
The good news?
It’s really easy bro.
Especially once you delete your misunderstandings about attraction.
After I did this, the positive responses started flooding in.
Let’s begin…
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Back to it…
# 1 | Woe is Me
Nobody likes me because I’m…
- Short
- Ethnicity
- Aged 23
The list goes on.
These are what Dr. Robert Glover calls self-limiting beliefs.
They are excuses you tell yourself so you can stay in the comfort bubble.
It’s like a shooting yourself in the —
And you have to catch yourself before you end up exiting the dating pool entirely.
I know a very chill guy who gave up on dating in his mid 20s because of these beliefs.
Sadly, it’s becoming more common.
But think about it logically:
What’s harder?
A) Spending 50–60 years alone
OR…
B) Changing your mindset
Stop focusing on all of the things you can’t change.
Place your energy into mutable characteristics.
- Lift like an athlete
- Eat like a centenarian
- Dress like a model
I’m not saying you have to metamorph into some unrecognizable d-bag.
Just become the best version of yourself.
You lose nothing.
# 2 | Distorted Messages
“The world belongs to the optimists.” — Alex Hormozi
Limiting your vision in a world of infinity never made sense to me.
Forget your past.
Forget whoever you were told to be.
Starting now…
You are the calm, confident, attractive guy.
I’ll save you a couple of months figuring it out:
- First person visualization
- Perform the base principles (building the physique, nonverbal body language, presenting with status…)
Repeat.
If you’re new to visualization…
It’s essentially imagining yourself as the man you’ve always wanted to be, while in the meditative stage.
This subconsciously influences your behaviors IRL.
Why does this work?
Over time, first person visualization changes your self-image.
And when you change your self-image — your new life follows.
People treat you based on how you treat yourself.
# 3 | Deferred Life Plan
Like we talked about earlier…
Attraction is unnecessarily difficult if you’re not taking care of yourself.
So start the self-improvement.
But don’t delay the life.
If you want to ask out that cute barista tonight — go do it.
Don’t wait until you have a six pack.
Of course, work towards the goals.
But don’t let your life pass in the shadows.
This is the part too many dudes mess up.
They keep pushing the goalpost out of fear.
You know what happens to them?
They turn into Saito — old men filled with regret.
Miss me with that.
Go and get yours.
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