What 97% of Men Get Wrong About Attraction

Here’s a fact. 

You don’t need designer or a G-wagon to attract the woman of your dreams. 

Why? 

If there’s guys out there in rural Indiana having the time of their lives…

Then the accumulation of fancy things isn’t the answer to magnetism. 

I’ve gotten more reception while living out of a backpack than trying to flex my status.

It literally doesn’t matter. 

Your mindset is far more important than the toys you own. 

And that’s something you can’t buy. 

So how do you develop an attractive energy?

Put in the work. 

Here’s how…

# 1 | physical 

The real status symbol isn’t a Gucci shirt. 

It’s a fit body. 

Your physique signals health and virility.

These are timeless qualities of attraction.

Just refer to any Greek sculpture. 

So if you want to be attractive…

Stop the Amazon spending.

Hit the gym. 

Anyone can swipe a credit card — but most are unwilling to put in real work. 

That’s your advantage. 

# 2 | social 

Who would you rather get to know: 

“My hobbies are TikTok, IG, and YouTube”

VS. 

“I love to write, ski, and tango”

Guaranteed your crush has the same answer. 

You can’t expect to attract interesting people with a boring life. 

“But what if I don’t have any hobbies?” 

Time to get some. 

Consider your interests and the type of woman you want in your life. 

This optimizes for niche. 

In other words…

It puts in you places where you’re most likely to meet your Princess P. 

Now write this down:

• One physical hobby
• One social hobby
• One creative hobby

Use this framework to put away the phone and do meaningful sh*t. 

And I know. 

There’s period where it feels tough because it’s new. 

But power through — repetition deletes fear. 

# 3 | chill 

Relax. 

Like most things in life, the less you care the easier it gets. 

Ask women out without hesitation.

Start conversations for fun.

It’s not that deep. 

And if you don’t believe me — go stargazing. 

At the end of the day, we’re all cooked into dust anyways.

So who really cares what Sabrina from the farmer’s market says?

It’s all a journey for your own improvement.

Adopt a lifestyle that promotes peace.

Here are actionable steps to being the chill guy:

• Starting now you’re Himothy 
• Breathwork 10 minutes daily
• Walk outside in nature 
• Audiobooks on philosophy 

Worst case? 

Grind out your emotions in the gym. 

That’s real meditation.