Why 99% of Men Never Have Dating Success

This needs to stop…

Life is short. 

Do you really want spend your Friday nights firing up the corn? 

Or would you rather be out on a hot Cheesecake date?  

The modern world is full of pitfalls. 

Don’t pay attention…

And you might just fall in. 

Forever. 

No joke — 

Monkhood is literally at an all time high. 

So don’t become a statistic. 

Here’s how to find dating success…

# 1 | ATTRACTION 

Looks aren’t everything. 

But in today’s dating world…

It matters. 

I know, because I started out as a skinny kid with no swag.  

Would not recommend. 

Anyways, I’m sure this isn’t breaking news to you…

So how do you MAX out your appearance? 

Hit the gym.

An aesthetic body is 80% of physical attraction. 

Start today. 

Once you’re on the fitness journey — 

Your aura hits overdrive. 

How? 

• You become confident
• You exude virility 
• You become disciplined 

Now…

Being jacked doesn’t help if you’re weeping in bed all day. 

This next step is key…

# 2 | NUMBERS 

Let’s forget the apps for a moment. 

IRL…

Dating is a numbers game. 

Which means…

To improve your odds, increase the interactions. 

How? 

Go outside. 

Conversate. 

I use the “two birds, one stone” method.

For example…

After the gym, I hit up a local cafe or bookstore to bust on an article. 

Here I can socialize while writing about socializing. 

Like Inception. 

There’s better ways too:

• Dance classes
• Language classes 
• Sports leagues 

The goal is to place yourself in environments where you can meet women organically. 

At the very least…

You’ll develop your talents instead of rage swiping. 

# 3 | DETOX  

Imagine your childhood bully. 

Now imagine him wifing up your crush. 

Doesn’t feel good, right? 

If you want to avoid “FML” moments…

You CANNOT squander your time. 

Because if you’re not making use of it — 

Big Bob will. 

How do you maximize your time?

Erase your phone. 

Essentially…

• Set a 2 hour screen time limit
• Set downtime until 3PM 

Use your phone only after the hard work is done. 

Even limit music. 

Sure, vibe out to lofi girl at work or Carti at the gym…

But restrict otherwise.

Instead…

Listen to audiobooks on social psychology, behavior, or straight up dating. 

This is how you GROW while the competition brainrots on TikTok. 

Get ahead. 

# 4 | HABITS 

My energy changed after I went to civil war with myself. 

This is also where the success came. 

Why? 

You can’t expect to become Tony Stark if you’re INDULGING in the same habits that keep you nameless. 

This is the challenge for our generation: 

• Digital addiction 
• Hyper-processed foods
• Unlimited substances 

All of these keep you from living in the real world. 

So…

Figure out the habits that are holding you back — 

Then change them. 

# 5 | PURPOSE 

Women are attracted to purpose-driven men. 

Luckily…

This is also where men function their best. 

I realized this after reading “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Viktor Frankl. 

In short…

Turn energy into action, and solve your problems ASAP. 

For dating — 

Ask yourself this:

What are high impact actions I can take for success? 

It’s usually…

• Improve your physical appearance 
• Go to places where you can meet women

Now…

There’s nothing left to think about. 

Just do it.