Why 99% of Men Never Make Dating Progress

Take the vow and make a change

I shed a single tear for my brothers. 

Today, most men have resigned to the confines of their walls…

Watching more corn than a farmer on his summer harvest. 

It feels like we’ve hit 451F. 

The question is — 

What happened? 

Somewhere along the way, socializing died, and now we’re reaping what was sowed. 

But let me offer you a thought: 

The limitation is you. 

Dating success is easier than you think. 

Here’s how to revitalize your dating life…

# 1 | NICHE APPEAL  

Dating is like Medium.

You’re not going to attract everyone, but that doesn’t matter.

You ONLY have to appeal to the women in your “niche.”

Consider this:

You’re a minimalist bookworm obsessed with FIRE (the money kind).

Who are you likely to attract? 

Women that are into smart, frugal, lowkey dudes.

Sure, you might not appeal to the emratas of the world.

That’s okay.

Either way — keep a few universals in mind: 

• Fitness
• Grooming
• Confidence

These will support you regardless of your style. 

# 2 | SOCIAL ENERGY 

Free hour?

Go outside and talk to everyone you meet. 

Everyone. 

The waitress at your favorite sushi restaurant, the Starbucks barista, and the older gentlemen who walks his dog in the evening. 

Why?

Socializing is a skill. 

Ultimately, dating ends up as a game of numbers. 

So the better you are at crushing approach anxiety and breaking the ice…

The more dates you’ll have lined up. 

It’s simple mathematics sir. 

Here’s a guide on how you can create an approach mindset: 

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# 3 | CHANGE LOCATIONS  

Let me preface this. 

You don’t need to live in NYC, LA, or Miami to have a rich dating life. 

But…

Living in a deadend Nebraskan village (no offense) probably won’t do you any favors. 

Be somewhere with a culture that motivates you and has access to social events. 

For instance — 

If you’re on the hippie backpacker wave, finding the LOYL in stucco suburbia seems unlikely. 

And vice versa. 

Explore a little. 

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