Why 99% of Young Men are Leaving.

The other day I was hanging out with an old friend from high school. 

He’s a software bro who struck gold early in his career. 

Only in his mid 20s, he swings a 5K bachelor pad in the middle of the city. 

He eats out every meal, buys the latest gadgets…

You get the picture. 

Anyways, we get to shooting the sh*t and I ask him about his dating life. 

Despite all of his success, he confesses to me:

“I haven’t gone on a date in years.” 

I was surprised.

As the conversation went on…

It became apparent he had given up on more than just dating. 

His days were spent being the perfect employee.

His nights entrenched in Reddit cesspools. 

Instead of meaningful reflection, his free time was allocated to extraneous distractions. 

He was lost. 

Being one of his only friends, I straight told him: 

“You’re going out sad bro.” 

He’s an engineer, so I also shared my thoughts in more scientific language. 

There’s always two paths to pick from: 

Effective or ineffective. 

If you’re not happy with the results you’ve gotten so far — 

Then you’ve chosen the wrong path. 

And change is the only solution. 

Greek Gods

If there’s a single action you can take to improve your stock price — it’s hitting the gym.

This is where walking ghosts are turned into playboys. 

So why are so many men absent?

It’s like buying an index fund.

Over a long enough timeframe…

The chance of success is nearly guaranteed.

But 99% of men can’t get past the delay between effort and reward. 

So they quit. 

Everyone wants the overnight success — 

Bagging groceries one day and waking up in a new Buggati the next. 

But that’s fairytale logic. 

Remember this: 

Progress always seems slow…

Until your dream girl is laying next to you. 

It always feels painful…

Until you realize the alternative is your current life. 

So do this one thing for yourself. 

Lock in. 

Exit Laziness  

I learned this lesson the hard way: 

Women are NOT going to take the burden of initiating contact.

This goes for real world interaction, texting, dating apps…

But there’s nothing to complain about — 

Here’s why: 

The average guy is allergic to putting the extra hour in. 

“Learn salsa? That’s not alpha.” 

“Talk to her? No thanks sir, I’ll keep scrolling.” 

They have an excuse for everything.

This is where you edge them out.

Because YOU know that Zendaya is not going to magically fall into your lap. 

So…

• Go outside 
• Talk to people 
• Build your life 

It’s never been easier to be the guy she’s obsessed with. 

But it only happens after you break the handcuffs —  

And start.