Why Attractive Women Ignore You (Until You Do This)

Your crush has dozens of other dudes blowing up her Nokia.
Guaranteed.
It doesn’t matter if she’s the girl next door or a seasoned IG model…
Her DMs are stacked.
And sadly, most guys can’t admit the truth…
She is going to pick her most attractive option.
I don’t blame her.
So our question is…
How you radiate attractive energy?

HABIT # 1 | YOUR BODY
If you haven’t realized yet…
A lean muscular build = high sex appeal.
Don’t tell yourself you can’t do it.
Millions of regular guys (working 9-5s) transform themselves everyday.
My dating life went from celibate panda to romcom star once I started pumping iron.
Seriously.
It’s fun — but also do it for yourself.
I dedicate myself to an “Arnold Split.”
Learn more about it here…
As long as you’re constantly iterating in this area…
The stud lifestyle is < 12 months away.

HABIT # 2 | YOUR AESTHETIC
So how do you separate yourself from the militia of guys hitting her line?
The answer is pretty intuitive.
Don’t be average.
Most guys dress in jeans, hoodie, and a pair of Crocs.
They don’t skincare and groom properly.
So you’re going to do the opposite…
- Dress like a GQ model
- Skincare AM + PM
- Get the best barber in the city
- Trim your beard
When you’re a chiseled Greek God who dresses like a 90s Hollywood superstar…
There’s no competition.

HABIT # 3 | ENERGY
There’s two powerful turn-ons…
- Humor
- Non-reactivity
These qualities signal confidence and security.
If she makes fun of you…
Give nonchalant.
Continue with the jokes.
Don’t be the guy who gets offended and rage quits the chat.
She’s testing you.
And she’ll fall in love if you reciprocate.

HABIT # 4 | IRL
80% of men are too nervous to interact with attractive strangers IRL.
So they congregate on the same dating apps.
This is where you edge them out.
Get outside.
- Talk to everyone
- Recognize that your options are endless
- The yes/no response reflects THEIR situation
- It’s temporary
Okay…
But what if you still want to wake up to 99+ matches?
Online dating is PURELY appearance based.
So take high quality photos (not selfies) to display your fit aesthetic and dapper style.
Rise and repeat.

HABIT # 5 | YOUR PRESCENCE
It’s never about what you say.
Even a one syllable “hey” is alluring when done right.
It’s about presence —
- Hold eye contact
- Stand up straight
- Slow voice + movements
- Open body language
If she is genuinely into you…
You won’t have to worry about carrying conversation.
It’s that simple.
Build yourself — and she won’t be able to ignore you anymore.
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