Why Nobody Gives a F*ck About You (Until You Do This)

Four years ago I nearly gave up on everything.

Supposedly I was in the prime years of my life.

But I lived like a terminal 80 year old.

I had not gone on a date in a calendar year…

Let alone touch a woman.

And I tried.

But after scrolling through 100 miles without a single match…

You start to wonder:

Is there something wrong with me?

So one day as I’m clocking out, I decide to book a one way flight to Amsterdam.

And I almost pulled the trigger, until I get a call —

My father.

You ever feel like the universe is trying to tell you something?

Sick to my stomach — I didn’t pick up.

But I knew I wouldn’t allow myself to tarnish the family name.

So I decided…

F*ck this.

I’m just going to work until they can’t ignore me anymore.

This is how I changed everything.

You know why nobody gives a sh*t?

It’s because you’re average.

No offense — I lived there for years.

Even though everyone CLAIMS they don’t “judge a book by it’s cover…”

Nobody checks out the dusty textbook rotting in the corner.

Dating is a status game.

The top 20% capture the interest of women everywhere.

The losers are left gooning in the dark.

Here’s the good news…

You can win too.

# 1 | Let the man be born

Our generation is plagued by abundance.

Junk foods, internet addictions, and substances are the new rewards.

Break the cycle.

Let the man be born.

Your metamorphosis begins with the first phase…

Fitness.

Work until failure.

Train your body to the fullest potential.

Change everything.

Not only do you attain a physique for the female gaze…

Discipline becomes a second skin.

You REALLY want them to see you?

Show up.

# 2 | Choose freedom

Average men are content with average circumstances.

The moment you bind yourself to limitations…

You’ve already lost.

Has it been done before?

Then nothing is stopping you.

Dream big.

I wanted to be more than a young man who was already dead.

And as I ruthlessly worked on myself…

Life became effortless.

I no longer had to beg for attention.

Opportunities arrived at my doorstep like Amazon Prime.

The power to change is within your own mind.

Access it.

Nobody is going to save us anyways.

# 3 | Everything is temporary

For years, my fear of rejection kept me on the silent path.

I did my best not to “bother” anyone.

Until one day I woke up and realized…

“This sh*t isn’t working.”

So I studied for months, until I internalized a philosophy:

Life is temporary.

When you KNOW the impermanence of where you live, the people you meet, and things you own…

You stop attaching yourself to outcome.

You start doing.

Guess what?

Once you work yourself into motion…

They notice.

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