Why So Many Men Are Lonely Today
The rates of male loneliness are rising faster than Argentinian inflation.
Why?
Well, the problem is that most men have removed themselves from IRL interactions and opted into pixelated gooning.
The instant gratification is just too accessible.
And things are only going to get worse with the AI storm brewing.
Tragic.
Here’s the deeper problem —
Most men don’t realize that comfort and loneliness are polar opposites.
I didn’t figure this out until my late 20s either.
But simply put…
You CAN’T AFFORD to “be comfortable” in today’s dating market.
In a world of infinite options, this is a recipe for unintentional monkhood.
Here’s how to shift your status quo…
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# 1 | BE AESTHETIC
Everyone always says…
“It’s a numbers game bro.”
True…
But you’re going to be hard pressed finding a fit and energetic woman if you’re not that yourself.
There’s 4 universals for physical attraction:
- Aesthetic body
- Glowing skin
- Grown man style
- Clean grooming
Your appearance is key because it creates a positive feedback loop for confidence.
So sure, attraction is a numbers game.
But to increase your stock price and guarantee what you want long-term…
Glow up.
# 2 | LEARNING
After I graduated college, I noticed that meeting women organically was rock hard.
Tuition at Disneyland is expensive…
So I started joining hobby groups.
Why?
#1) I unlocked fun and attractive talents
#2) I met women with an active lifestyle
Personally, I’m a big fan of Latin dance (salsa, bachata, tango…)
It travels hella easy.
Whenever I’m in a new city, I have instant access to a vibrant community with just a fresh pair of shoes.
But if you’re not sure where to start…
Trial out anything remotely appealing to you.
There’s a lot out there.
# 3 | LINGER
The invention of the man cave is the most American sh*t ever.
Don’t buy into the idea of comfort — it just keeps you neutralized.
Go outside.
You’re not going to find the LOYL while choking chicken to the Food Network right?
No sir.
So how do you actually meet women without being creepy?
I use something called “indicators of interest,” which is just a fancy way of saying body language.
In a nutshell —
- Eye contact (more than 1x) = go talk to her
- She’s tilted towards you = go talk to her
Make a compliment (unrelated to her body) or ask a question.
That’s it.
If she’s interested, she’ll carry the conversation.
Otherwise, exit gracefully.
# 4 | CHEAT CODE
If you’re having trouble jumpstarting your love life…
Take a solo trip.
This forces you to step out of the comfort zone and meet strangers.
Here’s exactly how to do it:
- Book a hostel
- Attend their social events
- Speak words
Boom.
And that’s not even the best part.
Once you have a couple nations under your belt, you’ll realize how abundant the world is and develop an IDGAF mentality (highly attractive).
No excuses here.
If you’re a worried about the logistics or short on PTO…
Just pick a local city.
It doesn’t really matter where you go.
The point is to leave the walls and expand your borders.
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