Why your life is so boring

Last week I visited an old friend from college. 

We’ll call him Scott because he reminds me of Michael Cera in that one movie. 

Great guy. 

And even though we don’t meet that often, we’re shooting the sh*t on FaceTime at least once a quarter. 

Here’s the problem: 

Scott has an L mentality. 

It’s NEVER his fault. 

No dates? 

The city is dying. 

Forget the fact that millions of men are living wild inside the same game. 

But I don’t think it’s too late for him. 

He just needs to understand WHY his life is so unattractive. 

Here’s what I shared with him: 

# 1 | You’re Wasting Your Attention 

One of the best things I ever did was delete this cesspool of negativity called Reddit. 

You have to realize…

Social media is where people go to complain about their lives.

Not improve. 

It’s not real life — the group think just makes it seem that way. 

And it goes beyond that…

The most important currency in the world isn’t time or money — 

It’s attention. 

Everyone is on their knees for it bro. 

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter…

But you’re not giving it to them anymore. 

Why? 

Attention in the right places gets you options. 

Attention in the wrong places gets you celibacy. 

So how do you free up your attention? 

Easy. 

Cut the distractions. 

If you’re not where you want to be in life…

You can’t afford the Netflix and Amazon sessions. 

There’s no expendable attention. 

# 2 | You’re Not Pursuing Your Passions

When women pick their partners — 

They look at your lifestyle. 

Nobody wants an overgrown iPad kid who stays home on TikTok all day. 

She wants a man on his grind. 

This doesn’t only mean working a day job. 

It means following your passions. 

Always wanted to learn salsa? 

Go sign up for classes TODAY. 

Sh*t is easy bro trust. 

Want to make reaction videos on YouTube? 

Go and build your infinite leverage. 

Put the phone down and work on something. 

# 3 | You’re Not Expanding Routes 

An boring life is an unattractive life. 

Sure, routine is needed so you can get ripped, eat clean, earn coin…

But there’s nothing stopping you from expanding your routes. 

Constantly do new sh*t.

Different cafes, different hikes, different day trips. 

Get out of your comfort zone. 

I’ve added countless numbers to my mobile by just exploring new spots. 

Spice things up. 

Why not? 

# 4 | Dreaming Bigger

Here’s a truth bro:

You design your own upper limits. 

If you think you’re “lesser than” — 

You’ll get what you believe in. 

Dream bigger. 

And I know. 

There’s no shortcuts. 

It takes twice as long as you want. 

But what’s better than becoming the most attractive version of yourself?

I spend 60 seconds after meditation visualizing the future. 

I’ve imagined myself building an athletic body, dating foreign women…

And everything happened. 

So f*ck realistic. 

Dream bigger.

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