The Real Way To Build Confidence

"As you think, so shall you become" - Bruce Lee

When you look in the mirror every morning…

What do you see? 

Is it a king? 

Or a nervous mess with an assumed path of failure? 

Whatever you THINK— 

Becomes your destiny. 

In other words…

Change your mindset, change your life. 

Adopt abundance.

Reject the status-quo. 

Perhaps contrary to your own belief…

You are a king. 

Society just extracts the self-esteem.

How? 

Substances, engineered foods, addictive touchscreens…

So our question is — 

How do we develop unbreakable confidence?

STEP # 1 | THINKING 

Here’s a thought exercise:

Reality is not real. It’s what you perceive. 

So WHY NOT visualize your success? 

Let’s say you want to be the next Alexander — 

Consider the inverse: 

What does total failure look like to you? 

For me:

Laying in bed all day choking the chicken, too afraid to defeat my fears. 

To become a confident king…

Start reminding yourself every day that you are one. 

Watch your thoughts, and shift away the self-doubt. 

Expect feeling like you sipped the Kool-Aid a little too hard.

This doesn’t happen overnight. 

It’s a major download before your mind believes what you’re telling it. 

But once this is achieved…

Greatness awaits. 

STEP # 2 | ACTION 

The next step…

Pull up. 

Thinking gets you at the door. 

Action opens it. 

Reinforce your beliefs with tangible accomplishments. 

This is essential for the confidence to ACTUALLY stay around. 

Here’s my actionable habit list: 

• Lift weights
• Lead conversations 
• Build an empire 

These boost strength, social talents, and freedom. 

In turn…

Your confidence is self-validated. 

STEP # 3 | EXPERIENCE 

Sticking the course is the hardest part. 

Why? 

As humans, we’re meant to work in an ecosystem. 

We crave acceptance. 

But for confidence…

You have to ignore not receiving positive feedback for months. 

It’s like building a Medium account. 

Write for months without making a nickel.

Write more.

Stripe payments clear. 

Experience is a prerequisite you can’t avoid. 

Consider the areas where you want to become highly confident…

Think. 

Act.

Repeat. 

All you need is a few disciplined months — 

Then confidence comes on autopilot.